How Can I Make a Guy Pay a Lot of Attention Towards Me? Here Are the Tricks Which Work Real Well

You may be the world’s most beautiful woman but if you fail to make your biggest crush notice you, don’t you just feel that you’re beauty seems worthless? Do you also feel that life is so unfair since some plain-looking women get to snag the best guys in the world? Well, despair no more, here are 7 great solutions to your dilemma:

Look Good
Fashion magazines and self-help books can’t stress enough how important looking good really is in attracting a man’s attention. Time and again, women are told that men are visual creatures so their very nature dictates that they must appreciate physical beauty. ‘Want him to look your way? Then look your best all the time!

Smile at Him
Come on, it’s not that hard to show those dimples, right? Show him your best smile and he will definitely feel the warmth of your personality and this would also help him feel at ease. Your smile is the biggest indicator that you’re an approachable person so don’t scare him away with a scowl!

Be Yourself
You can put your best foot forward but never pretend as someone that you’re totally not! A guy who’s being lied to from the onset would feel betrayed, so shun away from pretensions. Instead, show him your best qualities and surely, he will appreciate you for who you are.

Be Approachable
Remember that smiling is just the first step to being approachable. After showing him your pearly whites, it’s time to signal that you’re not an intimidating person. Prove to him that you may be a strong-willed and confident woman but you can be easily approached as well. Be fun to be with-people are drawn to you when you have an aura of happiness about you.

Be Where He Is
If you want a handsome guy to notice you back, then you must first be there at the places where he hangs out. How could he become more familiar with your presence if you’re not there in the first place? Check out what places he frequents and schedule that you appear there every now and then.

Practice the Art of Flirting
If you badly want the attention of a certain guy, then you must learn to play coy, laugh that cute laugh, and touch in a way that says you like him yet you don’t want to go to bed immediately. Show your feminine side and your target will immediately sense that you’re worth the chase.

Show Real Interest
Let’s say the guy approached you and you started having conversation, what now? The next step to let him remain interested in you is to show that you’re listening to him and that you have a deep interest in what he has to say. Give him 100% of your attention and you will be rewarded.

How To Get A Guy: 5 Secrets

Even if you are tired of dating, try not to give up. There is someone out there just for you. However, if you’ve been trying to figure out how to get a guy, and you still haven’t had any luck, these five secrets will help you understand what you are doing wrong, and how you can do it right.

Secret #1: Believe that dating is fun!

A lot of women take dating too seriously. While your goal is to find a life partner, you don’t have to express this within one minute of the initial contact with a hot guy. Seriously, would you want a guy asking you how much you weighed within the first minute of conversation? For just a few minutes, stop worrying about your precious fairytale, and start having fun!

Secret #2: Look Good

When you’re looking for a date, remember to look your best. However, try not to experiment with new looks that don’t fit you. Being comfortable in what you’re wearing creates confidence in dating. Being over the top or playing it safe could ruin your chances of getting a guy. In other words, while in a normal dating scene, avoid stripper heels and formal gowns.

Secret # 3: Exercise

Not only will exercising improve your physique, but it will also relieve the stress and frustration you have about dating. If you find yourself anxious for the date, stop by the gym after work to let off some endorphins. If you’ve been eating your loneliness away, stop! It’s time to get back into shape.

Secret #4: Pick the right location.

If you’re wondering how to get a guy while sitting in a bar with drunk perverts and fifty pool tables; then no wonder you’re so miserable. Start getting into the events happening in your area. Perhaps you can even go to a nice dinner alone. Start doing things that you enjoy doing. Chances are, you’ll find someone who enjoys doing the same thing.

Secret #5: Be open.

Lets just face it; your “Mr. Right” may not look as though he stepped out of a magazine cover. However, if you want to know how to get a guy, you must be able to see past the exterior person. Would you rather have a ‘cute’ guy who treats you like a queen, or a ‘handsome’ guy who treats you as if you’re not his only option? Don’t be so intent on going after the hottest guy in the room. Simply take interest in others who may be a little less attractive, but worth every encounter.

Shaving Body Hair For Men

If you follow the wonderful world of bodybuilding, fitness, and physical culture long enough there will come a day when you realize that all the fit muscular dudes that grace the magazines, the competition stage, and who strut their stuff down on the beach with sculpted 6 pack abs and ripped muscles glistening in the sunlight…

You’ll notice that they all have one thing in common… They have NO body hair… How can this be? They don’t actually shave… do they?

Nah, not these guys… there is no way these massive mountains of muscle, the same ones you’ll see bench pressing compact cars as a warm up set, will ever stoop to the level of bending over the edge of the bathtub with a can of shaving cream and razor in hand scraping away the hairs on their legs like a little school girl…!?!?

But the harsh reality of bodybuilding is that they DO!!!

Yes, my friend even the biggest and the burliest of bodybuilders will pay their dues, with razor in hand, shedding unwanted body hair in order to reveal the muscular physique that was carved from blood, sweat, and tears in the gym.

I can remember the first time I “shaved my legs”. It was during summer break of 1995. I was 16 years old and planning on competing in my first bodybuilding competition in a few months time. I was home alone, my parents were both at work. So I basically had the house to myself, what better time to experiment with shaving my legs…

To make a long story short…
4 worn out razors and 3 hours later I was sporting silky smooth legs, along with several nicks, cuts, and scabs to boot. Then to show off those freshly shaven white pillar’s of power, I put on a pair of gym shorts… It’s actually scary to see how white you are underneath all that hair.

In a strange sort of why I felt like this was a critical milestone that just I overcame in my bodybuilding journey… yes I admit this sport of ours is a bit weird.

Anyway, later that afternoon when my parents came home from work we had the usual routine chit chat:

Dad:
“Hey Lee, we’re home… How was your day?”

Me:
“It was ok, I shaved my legs today.”

Dad:
“You did WHAT!!!”

Me:
“I shaved my legs… you know… to get ready for the bodybuilding contest.”

Dad:
“You’re not serious…?!?!”

Me:
“Yeah, I really did shave my legs… all the bodybuilders do it before a bodybuilding contest.”

Dad:
“How on earth did you do that?”

Me:
“With a razor… several razors actually.”

Dad:
“ahhhh, Lee… I gotta tell you something… normal guys don’t shave their legs… you just don’t do that… it’s… well, it’s not natural.”

Needless to say, I didn’t feel too confident in myself at this stage and I certainly wasn’t gaining the approval of my old man. I think he was questioning my masculinity at this stage and he was having some doubts about his boy’s future…

But he eventually overcame his fears and concerns about my “manliness”. And now, over a decade of bodybuilding competitions later, the thought of men shaving their legs is just another household chore… just like taking out the trash :-)

So for all my fellow brothers of iron who are ready to take your bodybuilding game to the next level and… “Shave Your Legs” this article is for you!
This is what I call the A.B.C’s of shaving body hair…

Trust me this is not something you will learn from your dad…

The bottom line is that hair removal is a pain for everyone. And depending on how hairy you are will determine how much of a nuisance removing that hair will be.

In my case I’m pretty lucky because I don’t have a very hairy back or chest, just the few odd hairs here and there, nothing major. And my legs are what I’d consider average for a guy in terms of the amount of hair that I have growing there.

Now there are lots of hair removal methods and gimmicks on the market today; from creams, electronic gizmos, and God knows what else. Personally, I’ve never really gotten into using any of them myself. I’ve heard a few horror stories over the years from people who have experimented with various things. And I can remember when I was living at home my mom tried a particular hair removal cream and she broke out in a ugly red rash that irritated her skin big time. So I’ve just stuck to the basic old school method of hair removal – shaving.

If you’ve never shaved before and you have a lot of hair then I’d suggest you get yourself a pair of hair cutting clippers, the same ones the barber will use to give you a buzz cut. Using just the clipper itself with no comb, carefully trim away the hair from your legs, arms, chest, etc. and then get someone to help you with your back and areas you can’t reach.

A word of advice here, make sure you give yourself plenty of time. Shaving A LOT of hair cannot be rushed. It could easily take a couple hours or more, especially when you don’t have a clue what you are doing.

To make it easier on yourself I’d suggest that you just shave your legs with the clippers at first, then call it a day. The next day come back and shave your upper body with the clippers.

After you’ve completed this clipper trimming, your body will be covered in tiny stubble. Rubbing your hand over your skin will feel like sand paper. Not the most sexy thing, especially if you are planning on getting intimate with that special someone.

Anyway, the next day I’d suggest you break out the razor blade, the same one you use to shave your face with. Again schedule yourself lots of time, get in the shower and soap up your legs. Using a brand new razor blade, shave away… Make sure to be extra careful when shaving around the groin area (for obvious reasons) and just take your time, don’t rush things because this is what causes careless nicks and cuts.

If you can shave the stubble off both legs before you run out of hot water in the shower consider this a major accomplishment, you are well on your way to bodybuilding success :-)

The next day, do the same thing for your upper body. Again give yourself lots of time, lather up with soap, be careful, and always use a brand new razor blade.

One thing you’ll most likely notice a day or so after shaving is that you’ll break out in a razor rash of little red bumps, especially on sensitive areas like the inner thighs. While this is very annoying, it will become less irritated as you get used to shaving and your skin “toughens up” to the whole process. Keep in mind you are a shaving virgin right now and you have to suffer through this beginner stage, before you can get to the point of confidently sporting a ripped, hair free, muscle bod on the beach or competition stage.

After you have gone through the whole process of ridding your body of all the hair you can maintain your hair free body by simply shaving off the stubble once every 7-10 days in the shower. Again the easiest way to do this is divide your body in half, shave your legs one day, and then shave your upper body the next.

Well there you have it my friend. A step-by-step plan to go from a hairy Sasquatch, to a smooth, handsome, hairless physique… Now if losing this darn beer gut was just as easy we’d have it made.