Get a Good Looking Guy? Here Are the Secrets to Easily Get an Extremely Good Looking Guy

Every girl wants to have her good looking dream guy. It’s not impossible as long as you use a well-planned tactic to win his heart. Try to follow these simple pieces of advice:

Always look presentable even when you’re all alone

Always find time to take care of yourself and appear beautiful always. Wherever you go, look nice and fresh, you’ll never know if you might bump into him in one of the places you go to.

Go out and meet other guys

You may have been eying a particular cute guy, don’t stop your self from meeting other men. There could be better men out there than the guy you already have in mind. Possibilities are endless; just make sure if you found the right one, that you stick with him.

Choose from among the guys that you’ve already met

Everyday, you meet a lot of people, including good looking and nice guys. Choose from among these men and make sure that you pick out not only the best but the one who reciprocates your feelings as well. It does not always mean that the best looking guy is always the best so remember to choose wisely.

Be confident and smart so he’ll set you apart from the airheads

Always be sure and happy about yourself. Confidence makes a woman attractive. Stand tall and walk with your head held up high.

Never have a dull moment with him

Be funny and have a good sense of humor. Laugh about his jokes and feel relaxed and easy. Don’t be too stiff or uptight; this intimidates even the best looking guys.

Get to know the guy first

Not all good looking guys have good attitude as well. Try to know your crush more. Set good standards; choose the one who comes with good looks packaged with good attitude-one who is willing to give back the love you’re ready to give.

Don’t be intimidated by him

Just because he has good looks doesn’t mean that he is too good for you. Have the courage to go near him, and start a conversation. Some good looking guys will have an air of confidence because they know that many women are vying for their attention, be strong enough to overcome this.

A good looking guy is just like any ordinary men. Don’t hesitate to start a conversation to draw his attention. If he does not care-at all-about you don’t worry, there are so many handsome guys out there that will be ready to reciprocate what you can give.

The Aesthetics of Men’s Swimwear: It’s More Than You Think

There’s a difference between men’s swimsuits and men’s swimwear, because the latter, though it sounds like an inclusive phrase, rarely deals with swimsuits; swimsuits are a whole other breed meant for surfers, cold water, a hopefully sexy body, or any of the above. Swimwear is frankly a fancy way of say swimming trunks.

European Aesthetics

The dreaded word: Speedo. To this day, the Speedo is as fashionable as it was in the mid twentieth century when it comes to men’s swimwear. The elusive Speedo rarely looks good, men’s swimwear or any form of fashion. Years back, men who were in shape could proudly strut about with the Speedo. These days, strutting men with a six pack look too feminine with a Speedo on, at least from Americans’ perspective. There’s no good way of wearing a Speedo, and yet fat hairy men sport in a crowd that, for some reason, never reports the crime to the fashion police. Yet, there is another trend that is not necessarily European, but, instead global, or at least Western. When going to the beach, the pool, or just looking to get wet in public on purpose, swim trunks now sport a look that resemble shorts. In fact, a somewhat common style of trunks even includes pockets and colors to parallel cargo pants. Some even have the same feel, acting like shorts that can simply survive a good soaking. So, men’s swimwear is now multitasking-one minute you’re skateboarding fashionably, the next you’re cannonball-ing in a no-dive area of the neighbor’s pool, again, fashionably.

California Aesthetics

Some states, such as Hawaii, Florida, but more notably California thanks to it’s street cred of hosting all the hotties from Hollywood, Beverly Hills, and Orange County, take pride in the sun that presents the opportunity to go swimming almost 365 days a year and allow men’s swimwear to be as common as running shoes. How? By making sure that no one confuses supposed cargo shorts with swimwear. Loud colors thrust upon flower designs mark the stereotypical swim trunks. The irony is that men’s swimwear is becoming more and more popular as being part of the “casual look.” Wearing loud swimwear with a shirt and going to class is a norm in the warm, sunny states full of wet fun. Becoming a badge of honor, swimwear is the new aesthetics. Sadly, such a look doesn’t work everywhere thanks to the title of “poser.”

General Aesthetics

Other than state loyalty, the same rules are applied to men’s swimwear as they would to any form of fashion-don’t be too loud unless you have the personality to back it up. Khaki or mute, solid colors on shorts that apparently can be wet present either a teenage, skater look or a more serious, business like look, ironically. On the other hand, the loud Hawaiian-like patterns, designs, and general colors on obvious men’s swimwear are great for kids or jolly or eccentric adults, both of whom run around the pool in a game of Marco Polo.

All in all, it comes down to subjective preference, but because men’s swimwear comes in either mute or loud colors, and rarely anywhere in between without resembling the 80′s, be ready to act accordingly-business-like or more eccentric. Both are a great choice, but simply be prepared.

How To Attract A Guy

Do you find yourself home on a Friday or Saturday night? Jealous that the television actor has a date and you don’t? Find out strategies on how to attract a guy that will get you off the couch, out the door and on your way to a new you with a new Mr. Right.

Firstly, know what you are looking for. Ask yourself, what kind of a guy you want to attract? Be realistic in your criteria. If you find that you always attract the wrong kind of guy, identify what that is and make the change. If you want to attract a guy that has certain characteristics and attributes, stick to your guns. Remember if you want to attract that guy to your life forever, that’s a long time, it’s going to take time to attract the right guy. Sit down and right down the top 10 attributes that you desire in your mystery guy and read them often. This will open you up to the possibilities around you.

Next, look your best no matter where you go. Attracting a guy could happen at the laundry mat or the grocery store. Don’t limit your sights to Friday or Saturday nights in a bar where it’s dark and alcohol affects any sort of judgment. Go ahead and wear some nice perfume, style your hair, wear your favorite outfit to the grocery store. I have had friends that were able to attract a guy in a traffic jam or the drive through at Burger King.

You’re making an impression wherever you go and remember the first one makes lasting one. A fragrance that someone will remember, looking good in a particular shirt or pants will leave the right guy remembering you. If you feel good inside and out it’s going to show in how you act. Putting in a little extra effort to look good will also keep you feeling great, and in the mood to attract a guy or even a Mr. Right.

Be confident but not overbearing when attracting a guy. If you know yourself and know what you are looking for, guys will respect your honesty. This too will reflect on how you come across to others. If you’re shy and have no self-confidence or beat around the bush when talking to someone, they will think you’re not interested. Go on, get over your baggage! This is the new you we are talking to an you are ready to attract a guy.

You may have been burned before (um, who hasn’t?), deal with it then leave it behind. No guy is going to want a competition with an ex or your past relationships. See the mistakes as lessons to learn and grow to become a more confident you.

Also, don’t be something your not when attracting that perfect guy. Wear your fake lashes, your push up bras, your foundation applied maliciously and your favorite heels but keep one thing in mind… This guy might just see you in the morning, so be prepared for a transformation that won’t send him running out the door shrieking. Be proud of who you are, things to dress up with are fine but don’t try to completely change, he is interested in you not your collagen treatments. Would you really want to be with someone that didn’t appreciate the real you the next morning?

Be yourself, relax and know that there is a relationship waiting out there for you. Remember you know what you’re looking and you will attract him to you. Never come across or enter a room with the intention of attracting a guy. You don’t want to appear as desperate or over confident.

Be interested in the other person. Don’t constantly talk about your dog and all the tricks he can do or about the run in your stockings. Ask questions of this handsome guy, find things you two have in common and run with that. That is another lasting memory the other person will keep then go back to your friends and brag about the person you just met.

There are many more ways to attract a guy, and I have only covered a few, but rest assured that the most timeless advice is always to know what you are looking for and to be yourself, while remaining open to the surprises that life offers at every step.